weekend recap, mother's day edition

1. wonder wheel | 2. empty | 3. horizon | 4. whiskey kitchen | 5. neel's garden | 6. mother's day bouquet | 7. my hearts | 8. mother's day shout out

1. wonder wheel | 2. empty | 3. horizon | 4. whiskey kitchen | 5. neel's garden | 6. mother's day bouquet | 7. my hearts | 8. mother's day shout out

I had to scrabble all the way back to Thursday for this week's photo collage, partly because the blues are so pretty and just scream summer to me, but also because the middle photo (of the eggs, graciously gifted by my friend Kim) was chosen this week to be featured by 365_today, which is a photo-a-day community on Instagram. That was a total bonus! You guys know I love prompts, but I tend to be particular about them (when they're not my own). I drop in and out of various prompt groups as the themes speak to me, and I never dreamed I'd be featured. For some reason this one hit the mark. Made my week.

Oh, and that photo of the empty plate? I'll have more to say about that later, but I spent Friday night, also with my friend Kim, at the soft opening ("What the hell is a soft opening? When they opened The Flamingo, one day it was closed, the next it was open. End of story. I know, I was there." ~Saul Bloom, Ocean's 13) of the Whiskey Kitchen taking pictures for our friend and owner Delynda. It was thrilling to be there and we had a great meal! Like I said, more on that later...

We had a lovely Mother's Day, heading back to our traditional brunch spot (I love brunch), the same place where this happened last year. Remember that? I'd totally forgotten until our neighbor reminded me. Yesterday's brunch was pretty tame! My favorite gift came from Callum who gave a donation in my name to the wonderful organization, Midwives for Haiti.

Midwives for Haiti was previously unknown to me, but it's an organization that combines two things that are dear to my heart. I've always been fascinated with Haiti, and as a former birth doula, safe prenatal care and healthy deliveries for both mom and baby are very important to me.

Let me tell you a bit more about it. Haiti has a population of 10 Million and is the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. The statistics for mothers and children are devastating. 75% of women are not attended at their births by skilled professionals, and the maternal mortality rate in the country is alarmingly high. Out of every 100,000 births, 350 women will die (as a comparison, 12.7 women out of every 100,000 will die in the US). Haiti is the most dangerous country in the Western Hemisphere to give birth, and most maternal deaths would be prevented with adequate care. Haiti also has the highest infant and children mortality rate in the Western Hemisphere, with children who have lost their mothers 10 times more likely to die prematurely.

The 2010 earthquake that devastated Haiti also closed the government midwifery school. Midwives for Haiti seeks to train Haitian nurses to become skilled birth attendants. Their goal is to help reduce Haiti's maternal mortality rate by 75% by 2015.

"By ensuring that all mothers in Haiti receive prenatal, delivery, and postpartum care by Skilled Birth Attendants, more mothers will be there to care for their families. Communities and a developing country will continue to be built around the strength and industry of women." *

What an amazing organization in a stunning and heartbreaking country. My boy knows me well. Made his Momma proud.

*All information via Midwives for Haiti.

weekend recap, perception_collection recap, may 5

1. lilacs from Neel's garden | 2. quiet night | 3. baseball saturday | 4. mint julep | 5. sunny window | 6. baseball sunday

1. lilacs from Neel's garden | 2. quiet night | 3. baseball saturday | 4. mint julep | 5. sunny window | 6. baseball sunday

All baseball all the time this weekend. Bear with me for a moment here. Starting with a loss that felt like a win on Saturday (because Cal had a great game... not that that's all that matters) and a (big) win that felt like a loss on Sunday because the whole game seemed to have a dark cloud over it. Did you know... there's a rule in Little League that only one coach can be on the field at a time wearing flip flops? So our coaches started the game with a dust up with the umps about that.

Despite tons of runs for us, things went downhill from there. Our pitcher hit one of their batters in the leg. It happens. No big deal. But the next time that guy got up to hit, our pitcher must have been spooked a little because he hit him again, this time clipping the back of his helmet. Yikes! The parents from the other team? Yelling, "Dust it off!" Like he was a toddler with a skinned knee. Well, the parents on our side of the field weren't impressed with that. You get hit in the head, you should sit.

That same kid pitched the next inning, and after getting walked at his at bat, Cal stole second. Their catcher tried to throw him out and ended up beaming their pitcher in the face. Same kid who'd been hit twice before! It was bad. The ball hit his temple and ricocheted off.

Everything came to an eerily silent halt. All the coaches came over as the kid stood there weaving a bit. Finally they took him off the field and sat him down with a pack of ice. !! One of our moms went over and said, "I will call 911 for you." Apparently he didn't even know where he was.

After that, nothing felt right. It took forever to restart the game (long enough to bring the kids off the field and out of the sun), and no one could do anything. Both teams were rattled. The umps should have ended it then and there, but for some reason they kept it going for another inning before finally calling it. Three innings. That's all we played. We won, 18-10. And you know what else? We play them again on Wednesday. Great.

 

Bonus section: Gratitude: cuelifephoto | edenhelsley | maggiemuses

Bonus section: Gratitude: cuelifephoto | edenhelsley | maggiemuses

You guyyyyyyys... My heart is so full when I think about how much fun we had during #perception_collection. I just have no words. I said on Friday, and I'll say it again, watching my feed fill with all of your interpretations of the prompts and watching you support each other as you moved through each of the prompts... well, it moved me so much. Christine and I had so much fun putting it together, and we were totally overwhelmed at the response! We'll be back! We're working hard on assembling more prompts for you, so mark your calendars for June 27-July 11. Let's celebrate summer with some great photography, shall we? Christine's recap is over at The Plumed Nest, so go check out more great photos there.