first landing {life}

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For five weekends now we've been trekking out toward First Landing State Park for a Sunday morning walk along the Chesapeake Bay. I'm not gonna lie. It was my brilliant idea in the first place. I just decided that I needed to do it, needed to go, and if I went by myself that would be okay. Luckily, everyone wanted to come with me.

Because Lucy needs the most exercise, we started with her first. Honestly? She's not the best beach dog. She's a bolter, and while I don't think she'd head off the beach and toward the busy street, it's too stressful to not be sure. So on the leash she stays. Which is fine, except for Lucy, the sand is BIG, the sky is BIG, the bay is BIG...well, you get the idea. She's an anxious little one.  

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We tried Thea next, and that's worked out much better for everyone, I think. Mellow on the car ride and mellow along the water, she's the best beach dog we have. She's content to sit with me if Cal and Neel are throwing the baseball, and if I say, "Let's go for a walk," she jumps up and is ready to plod along beside me. Sweet corgi looks so small on that vast beach.

Cal tries stand up paddleboarding. 

Cal tries stand up paddleboarding. 

That's Neel way out there. 

That's Neel way out there. 

Buster the bulldog, to the fore of that paddleboard. 

Buster the bulldog, to the fore of that paddleboard. 

Often times, we'll meet my friend Kim and her family for a walk with their bulldog Buster. If you follow me on Instagram, you may have seen Thea paddleboarding with Cal. It was Buster's paddleboard that Cal and Neel (and Thea) borrowed that gorgeous early October day. 

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A tanker ship rounds Cape Henry and heads to Norfolk, likely to the spot I can see from where I take all the shots from our river.

A tanker ship rounds Cape Henry and heads to Norfolk, likely to the spot I can see from where I take all the shots from our river.

I've described to you before about how the layout of the land and water works here, and as you can see, we have so many options when it comes to taking in some beach or water time. Endless marshes or rivers aside, it's always remarkable to me that you can think to yourself, "Bay or ocean today?" Even on the bay, there are different landscapes, and further up things feel calmer while here at the mouth the world seems more wild.  

I never would have dreamed you could pull me away from the ocean, but I've come, I think, to love this spot the best. I love the curve of the land as it bends around Cape Henry and I love that we're in the place where the great Chesapeake Bay meets the Atlantic Ocean. I love it that this is where the first settlers landed when they first came to America, and I love seeing the naval might and the industry of our country travel these waters. I feel connected to the earth in a way here that doesn't happen on pavement or city streets.

The weather has been different each time we've gone, with wind and wave marching changeable patterns along the shore. Some days (like this past weekend), it's clear enough to see the cars traveling the Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel in the distance. Others have been blustery and cool, with gray clouds scudding across the sky.  

Will we make it deep into winter? I don't know. I hope so, and with Virginia winters, we're likely to get at least a Sunday or two here or there where we can go. Until then, this I treasure. Time with my family. Hearing Cal say each weekend, "We're going to the beach, aren't we?" Walking with a faithful pup by my side. My feet in the cool soft sand. The splash of a wave against the shore. This I cherish.

weekend recap, october 14

1. lunch date | 2. river walk | 3. gin and tonic | 4. foggy morning | 5. deliverance | 6. dinner theater | 7. sunday walk | 8. bright spot | 9. ball boy | 10. tidewater | 11. medicinal | 12. tidewater, part 2

1. lunch date | 2. river walk | 3. gin and tonic | 4. foggy morning | 5. deliverance | 6. dinner theater | 7. sunday walk | 8. bright spot | 9. ball boy | 10. tidewater | 11. medicinal | 12. tidewater, part 2

The thing that started it all, that had us laughing the most all weekend was when our sweet Violet told us about the pet unicorn she has in the back yard.  

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Apparently its name is Liriope. Neel patiently tried to explain to her that liriope is a plant and that unicorns are fictitious, but Violet wouldn't budge. "Fictitious? That's another word for 'pretty,' right?"

And now she's proud she learned a new word. "Mama, those flowers Papa brought you are SO fictitious!" Or, "Boy when those guys go canoeing in Deliverance, it is NOT fictitious." My personal favorite? "Mama, you're so fictitious." 

Sometimes it's better just to let Violet think what she thinks.  

So Cal has Columbus Day off (apparently in Virginia we don't care as much as they do in Portland, Christine!), but since he ended his day on Friday with study hall and a free bell, I sprung him early and we snuck out to lunch. I'd been super sick on Thursday with a migraine, so it was nice to have a few extra hours together. Total bonus. Nice way to start a long weekend. 

It's been raining since Wednesday, and we've been making it a point to get down to our river to see how high the tides are running and if we have some good choppy waves to watch. As we drive over the bridge we take to get home, each day the docks we pass that normally sit several feet above the water have had waves crashing up through the planks. I like the anyway it comes. Cal likes it best when it's been intense the way it's been lately.  I think we'll make it a regular stop in our afternoons.

Those last few pictures? Numbers 10 and 12? That's several blocks from our house, so we're fine. Our street tends to flood during intense rain storms rather than tides, and our house is situated high enough that we don't even need flood insurance. (We have it anyway.) We actually call this "minor tidal flooding," can you believe it?! We've had strong northeast winds with this storm, and that's pushed the tides up at nearly every cycle. Many of the houses along the river here are elevated, but many still aren't. And as we waded through knee-deep water in the middle of the street, it was clear that many people were simply trapped in their homes until the tide went out again.

That's what it's like here. sometimes. That's part of what I love about this place.